16

May

He went on to say, “Lesbians? Of course, I’m totally down with that,” with a half smile that suggested I was supposed to think what he was saying was funny. As a punchline of a joke, that only makes sense if you think that we have some common bond over the fact that we both think lesbians are hot. This is not something I ever want to bond with a straight guy about; my sexual identity and you getting off have nothing to do with each other and the implication that you get some pleasure from it is gross, inappropriate and bordering on harassment.

02

May

12

Mar

I posted this photo earlier, but I edited it so it wasn’t so dark! 
From this post: {Lingerie Review Outfit Post} Playing Dress Up in eLai

I posted this photo earlier, but I edited it so it wasn’t so dark! 

From this post: {Lingerie Review Outfit Post} Playing Dress Up in eLai

(via {Lingerie Review Outfit Post} Playing Dress Up in eLai)
Yup, that’s me!

04

Mar

Yup, that’s me. Read all about it :)
autostraddle:

Straddler On The Street: Caro, The Lingerie Lesbian

Welcome to Underwear Week, a whole week dedicated to your favorite bum-hugging clothesthings. As we…

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Yup, that’s me. Read all about it :)

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Straddler On The Street: Caro, The Lingerie Lesbian

Welcome to Underwear Week, a whole week dedicated to your favorite bum-hugging clothesthings. As we…

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06

Feb

(via Trend of the Week: Cozy Lingerie to Fight Off the Cold)

21

Jan

thelingerieaddict:

5 Lingerie Blogs to Read in 2013

Including me! I’m so proud :)

19

Jan

ohhhlulu:

Ohhh Lulu Spring Preview <3

ohhhlulu:

Ohhh Lulu Spring Preview <3

07

Jan

Lingerie Review: Sonata Opaline Bodysuit

Lingerie Review: Sonata Opaline Bodysuit

Lingerie Review: Sonata Opaline Bodysuit

Sonata Opaline Bodysuit
You may remember this bodysuit from my holiday wishlist post. it’s no…

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Lingerie Review: Sonata Opaline Bodysuit

Sonata Opaline Bodysuit

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19

Dec

Lingerie Review: Karolina Laskowska Purple Lace Strappy Bra


It’s taken so long for me to write this Karolina Laskowska lingerie review because I’ve been…

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Lingerie Review: Karolina Laskowska Purple Lace Strappy Bra

It’s taken so long for me to write this Karolina Laskowska lingerie review because I’ve been…

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09

Dec

Autostraddle — NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Will Warm You Up

Guess whose article is linked to this week! My piece on How to Wear Lingerie for your Boyfriend or Girlfriend (or Other).

08

Dec

Why it Matters that I'm "The Lingerie Lesbian"

…I’m not necessarily being brave by calling myself, “The Lingerie Lesbian“– but I am being almost aggressively honest. I was so tired of the assumptions of straightness that follows me in my physical life that I wanted to make it clear that my sexuality is a part of who I am. Just my presence changes the conversation. Some people, gay and straight, say that your sexuality is private, that it’s not a necessary part of a conversation about fashion or anything else– I completely disagree. If I look around me and listen to the conversations, I am constantly hearing about my coworker’s husbands, celebrities’ boyfriends, some popstar’s (straight) wedding, how attractive some model (of the opposite sex) is. It feels like I’m inundated in heteronormative culture and no one sees it but me. No matter how liberal or accepting a community is, if you’ve come out, you know what it’s like to see someone’s face change, for their whole mind to shift to take in a reality that had genuinely never occurred to them. You’ve changed, completely, right before their eyes– even while you know that you’ve stayed completely the same…

29

Nov

7 Signs You&#8217;re Addicted to Lingerie

26

Nov

Why Introverts Love Lingerie
&#8220;&#8230;The complaint I hear most often about lingerie is that no one will see it or appreciate it. Now, I can totally understand that– it will never make the entrance of a well cut jacket or a beautiful dress. Lingerie is not a way in which we make a mark when we enter a room or give someone else a first impression. But lingerie is something that I enjoy so much and is such an important part of how I feel special and joyful that it affects the way I interact with people much more than anything they might actually see&#8230;&#8221;

Why Introverts Love Lingerie

“…The complaint I hear most often about lingerie is that no one will see it or appreciate it. Now, I can totally understand that– it will never make the entrance of a well cut jacket or a beautiful dress. Lingerie is not a way in which we make a mark when we enter a room or give someone else a first impression. But lingerie is something that I enjoy so much and is such an important part of how I feel special and joyful that it affects the way I interact with people much more than anything they might actually see…”